In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a kind, giving, and thoughtful woman who’s been in a long-term relationship that has sadly lost its spark. After many years of trying, I’ve accepted that emotional connection can’t be forced. For now, we share a home for the sake of our child, but we live separate lives.
I’m not here for judgement or to be preached to — this is my personal journey, and I’m simply seeking peace and genuine companionship. Life has its struggles, but I’m hopeful about meeting someone who understands and appreciates authenticity.
I love nature and anything to do with the ocean — that’s where I find calm and clarity. I hike three times a week to stay grounded and fit. I appreciate art, architecture, and beautiful things, and I take pride in dressing with timeless elegance — think Audrey Hepburn meets Coco Chanel.
Grace, poise, and kindness are what I bring into any space, and I’m hoping to meet someone who values the same.
I have a stable life , meaning no drama. Ive just been unlucky in love but that does not mean I am broken or desperate. I dont want to inherit any problems. I won't be rushed or pressured into anything, So friendship is a wonderful place to start.
*Due to the sensitive nature of my situation. My images wont be uploaded here for now but can be sent to you directly.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for a mature, well-travelled, and emotionally intelligent man who values peace, depth, and balance. Someone established, confident, and grounded — who understands that life isn’t always perfect but still chooses to move with grace.
He should be educated, articulate, and curious about the world — someone who enjoys art, culture, economics, and thoughtful conversation. I’m drawn to men who take care of themselves, are clean and well-groomed, and have a strong yet gentle presence.
I’m not seeking drama, judgement, or sermons — only understanding, respect, and connection. Boundaries are important to me, but so is warmth, affection, and emotional attentiveness.
Ultimately, I hope to meet an older gentleman who is supportive, romantic, inspiring, and genuine — someone who values elegance, kindness, and quiet strength as much as I do. Ill be a source of reason and calm, balance.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Partnered | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 100 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English; French; German; Italian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Bowling; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Swimming; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in a monogamous relationship |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using SA Reunited SASingles: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
