In Her Own Words
About Her
First item on our agenda will be to establish that you are a real person. Have you seen Tinderswindler? Have you been approached by countless, frustrating, fake profiles?? Well, I have.
And I am sick of the futility of chatting with seemingly delightful men, only to move to [removed]and find that the phone number is registered to a completely different person with a very dodgey name.
So, if you are not prepared to produce your ID, then we are not getting past the first 5 sentences.
Now, about me.... I may not be perfect, in fact... maybe I am a tad broken, but I do know who I am, I know where I am going and I know that i AM 'enough'.
I am a bit crazy, very independent, but a bit of a walk over and I "believe" waaaaay too quickly.
Bin taken for a few rides, but I would go back to any of the places I have been and places I have seen. There are however, a few people I would never go back to.
I dont change for anybody, so this is me ..... take it or leave it.
About Her Ideal Match
GUYS.. GUYS.. GUYS..... PLEASE READ MY REQUIREMENTS.
The right man will be 3 years younger to 3 years older than me, in my height requirement, be enjoying his own company and loving life.
If your bio mentions words like 'lonely', 'normal', 'just', or U r at a loss without a partner, then your energy is not for me.
I am not going to light up your life and I assure you, you won't light up mine, I already light up my own life, but maybe we will really enjoy each others company and take it from there.
Guys, you can see I have written my bio in English... If your bio is not written in English, your family braai is not conducted in English, let's not even start a conversation.
IQ matters, as does the ability to proof read your writings.
I dont want a guy who is shorter than 1.81, sorry OK.
Photos of you holding a fish, sitting on a motorbike, big, grey beards, flimsy grey pony tails...come on!
I am looking for whatever the universe thinks i am ready for...…maybe he will be Mr. perfect, Mr. right, Mr. misfit or Mr. made for me, I could meet him at the local gym, dating site or builders warehouse...which, incidentally, i do frequent quite often.
Too many stories about how Sue met Joe, fell in love, gave up her job & life, moved to Cape town to be with him only to discover his commitment was in no way similar, and he was literally still on the dating sites!!!
I am looking for a distraction from the hours of work I put in, somebody to be 'exclusive' with, not to be living in his pocket 24/7, nor he in mine. Trust is a given and i don't expect to produce photographic evidence of where i say i am at, just because HE was cheated on previously. I don't want you sleeping over 4 nights out of 7, and neither me. I want to 'know' he is there, but be able to get on with life, whilst looking forward to seeing him again. So, basically, space within a trusting relationship where two parties really hit it off, but still have lives to conduct.
Post covid notes:
profile photos with masks or shades, are worse than no photo at all.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Olympus), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; French; Italian | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Italy | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
56 - 61 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") - 189cm (6' 2.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Japanese; Norwegian; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Chess; Dancesport; Pool; Running; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
Moderate |
