In His Own Words
About Him
Well, I don’t know how to start. I am not particularly good at this sort of thing - packaging myself to catch the attention of the opposite sex. I have already mentioned my interests. Some of the things which make me happy – my six year old son’s smile, waves lapping against the beach, sound of rain, sea foam lashing against the face when sitting on a cliff, smell of the earth after the first rain.... At heart an incurable romantic. I’m a very sensual person. I’m affectionate and love physical contact. I am well informed about our world, very passionate about food and travel and I'm not afraid of stepping out of my comfort zone. I also like quiet walks on the beach and mountains, intelligent conversation and compassionate people. I have friends far away and am fiercely loyal. I am far from perfect and still believe in love – despite my bad experiences. I have lived abroad and travelled extensively.
About His Ideal Match
What kind of women do I like? Well, I can rattle off so many attributes but I chose not to. Let us get to know each other first without a check list in hand. For the moment, I can say that I find honesty and sensitivity in a person irresistible. Yes, honesty is a very expensive gift. I don't expect it from cheap people. I appreciate the unusual woman who is authentic, who, by nature, would more readily admit her fears rather than try to cover them up. I admire a woman who has a great sense of purpose in her life. Your country, community, caste, religion, family background and your past do not matter to me. If we vibe with each other, I will take you the way you are, warts and all, without trying to mould you to my perception of a "perfect partner". Tell me about yourself, whatever you want to. One request though, contact me only if you are serious about a relationship. By the way, I understand what it is like to be a woman in this world and I do not want to be another man for you. I want to be your harbour at the end of the day, your safe place, your companion, your friend, your lover, your champion, your inspiration and to be your best self. I know there is a high quality woman out there, is it you? Someone who will feel grateful and excited to share my gifts as I will generously share and celebrate yours if you are the right woman. And because we celebrate each other rather than pick on each other (why do so many couples do that?), every meal will feel like an 8 course gourmet treat because it will be spiced and flavoured with listening, laughter, love and kindness. My parents have instilled in me a sense of values and a deep love for the arts. I am not looking for the most beautiful woman in the world. I am just looking for one woman to make our life the most beautiful.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Mauritius | |
Location: |
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
German; Italian | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 165cm (5' 5.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
History; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Preferences: |
Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Painting; Photography |
Sports: |
Cycling; Extreme sports; Motorsport; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Very |
