In Her Own Words
About Her
Why?
Because I still enjoy life and would like to share it with a genuine kind, fun, real gentleman.
So suddenly I wiped the sleep out of my eyes and realised that I had survived two of the most trying years of my life! Now I am ready to meet that special, caring, on-the-same-wavelength guy, who wants peace and fun, love and life and all that comes with it.
I'm funny and ferocious or maybe ferociously funny,
I enjoy music - especially live music, rock, blues and classical.
Enjoy DIY.
Loved my job but was forced to retire at the end of 2021!
I can sew, cook, crochet, bake, look after myself and my 2 hounds, paint and restore furniture and generally keep my home in shape
As is normal with people of our age my body is no longer what it used to be, although my mind still seems to operate fairly well despite the ravages of seniority.
And finally I am here looking for a real relationship not just a hook-up, NSA partner. If you are SINGLE, meet my not negotiable criteria (age, where you live, preferably non-smoking etc) looking for the same as me and you live in the Western Cape, perhaps we have something to talk about. On the other hand if you dislike dogs, live in Gat-sonder-donder-en-water, think we have a great government, and that writing a one word mail (namely: "hi") constitutes an email then perhaps you should give me a miss.
ADDENDUM:
It appears to be a lot harder than I imagined to meet a normal, funny, single guy in the correct age bracket, who still enjoys getting out and about as well as enjoying being at home watching TV.
I am not looking for a "maatjie in the Northern suburbs", nor a church-choir partner who is looking for a"Christian Woman".
I am just a normal-ish, crazy lady who despite not being lonely does not always want to be alone.
Waiting for the right person …. to not just make me a favourite but send me a mail introducing yourself.
About Her Ideal Match
A mature, young-at-heart gentleman between 60 - 725who is honest (that pertains to your profile pic as well) SINGLE, does not smoke and still has enough energy to enjoy life.
Somebody who is caring and kind, who loves animals (I have 2 dogs) has a real sense of humour and a recent profile picture.
A guy who can laugh, be empathetic, have fun, enjoy live music and who is spontaneous.
A man who takes an interest in life around him!
A gentleman who preferably lives in Cape Town or close by, meets my not negotiable criteria and takes care with his appearance and grooming and would like a REAL relationship (not a “maatjie”) or an online chat -partner, pen (or should that read computer?)pal, or an NSA or something equivalent.
Somebody who likes to get out and about, enjoys seeing what the Cape has on offer, actually makes an effort and is interested in life and the world around us.
If that sounds like you perhaps you should make contact and see what happens.
No pic - no chat - irrespective of how famous or notorious you might be.
Cool, now that all that is out the way allow me to wish you a lovely day and thanks for reading my profile and let’s connect!
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
63 - 71 | ||
Star Sign: |
Taurus; Gemini; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 199cm (6' 6.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Polish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Golf; Gymnastics; Rugby; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Extremely |